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About Emily Kasriel

Deep Listener & Visiting Fellow at King’s College London

Emily Kasriel is a former BBC journalist, executive coach, mediator, and author of 'Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends, and Foes,' serving as a Deep Listener & Visiting Fellow at King’s College London. Her work centers on deep listening as a transformative skill for leadership, journalism, relationships, and bridging divides in polarized times, drawing from her 20+ years in media and topics like education, creator economy, and arts. She advocates an 8-step framework emphasizing self-awareness, presence, curiosity, and empathy to foster trust, reduce conflict, and repair social fabrics.

Deep Listening Framework

Emily Kasriel's core contribution is her 8-step Deep Listening method, which goes beyond active listening by engaging the 'whole of you' with the 'whole of them'—mind, body, and emotions—to create transformative connections.[1][4][6][11] Steps include self-awareness (managing biases and triggers), creating safe spaces, being fully present, embodying curiosity, empathy without judgment, reflecting back, and holding discomfort.[11][14][28] She positions it as a 'radical act' for healing divisions, applicable even with 'foes.'[5][18][35]

Applications in Leadership and Organizations

Deep listening enhances leadership by building trust, improving communication, and fostering collaboration without uttering a word.[1][9][32] As a keynote speaker and coach, Kasriel helps organizations transform relationships and effectiveness.[1][6][9] It empowers leaders to defuse conflict while upholding values, making it a 'power skill' in high-stakes environments.[12][14]

Journalism and Media Innovation

Kasriel, with 20+ years at BBC including roles as Head of Editorial Partnerships and season editor for 'Crossing Divides,' applies deep listening to journalism.[19][23][25] It transforms interviews by embracing surprise, solutions-focused reporting, and understanding diverse perspectives.[8][24][29] She critiques how tech worsens listening and urges journalists to listen deeply for better stories and societal impact.[14][37]

Relationships and Personal Transformation

Deep listening repairs family, friend, and community bonds by making people feel truly heard, reducing defensiveness, and promoting growth.[6][11][13][21] Kasriel shares how it navigates difficult conversations, vulnerability over interruption, and presence in a distracted world.[12][13][26] It's especially potent amid polarization, strengthening social fabric.[5][16]

Broader Societal and Cultural Impacts

In divided times, deep listening bridges ideological gaps, as seen in her 'Crossing Divides' BBC project and work at King's College and LSE.[19][24] It intersects with education, creator economy, and arts/music by humanizing commutes, promoting meaningful engagement, and countering AI's shallow hearing.[22][37] Book reviews praise it for practical guidance on disagreeing better.[30][33]

Speaking, Hosting, and Media Presence

Kasriel is a sought-after speaker on leadership, deep listening workshops (e.g., Columbia University), and podcast guest promoting her book.[2][7][9][12][17] Her TEDx talk on humane commutes reflects early humanism.[22][10]

Deep Listening as Transformative Skill

Kasriel's signature 8-step framework for holistic listening to build empathy, trust, and connection.

  • 8-step method for intention, curiosity, discomfort [11][14][28]

  • Whole of you listening to whole of them [6]

  • 'Third ear' listening [3][4]

Leadership and Organizational Impact

Listening as a silent superpower for leaders to enhance collaboration and communication.

  • Keynote on leadership, trust [1]

  • Ultimate leader without a word [32]

  • Power skill for workplaces [12]

Journalism Enhancement

Applying deep listening to reporting for deeper insights and solutions-focused stories.

  • Transform journalism interviews [29]

  • BBC experience, be open to surprise [8][24]

  • Tech worsens listening [14][37]

Relationship Repair and Conflict Resolution

Tool for family, friends, foes to reduce defensiveness and foster understanding.

  • Transform relationships with foes [16][21]

  • Diffuses conflict [14]

  • Radical act for social fabric [5][35]

Bridging Societal Divides

Countering polarization through empathetic engagement across differences.

  • Crossing Divides BBC project [19]

  • Deep listening project at LSE [24]

  • Even when disagree [16]

Critique of Modern Distractions

Tech, agendas, and interruption undermine true listening.

  • Tech making us worse listeners [14]

  • Debate over understanding [12]

  • AI hears but doesn't care [37]

Every entry that fed the multi-agent compile above. Inline citation markers in the wiki text (like [1], [2]) are not yet individually linked to specific sources — this is the full set of sources the compile considered.

  1. Emily Kasriel: Keynote Speaker on Leadership and Deep Listeningarticle · 2026-04-14
  2. Emily Kasriel — Deep Listening- with Christopher Turpin - YouTubearticle · 2026-04-14
  3. Author Talks: How to listen with your 'third ear' | Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  4. Author Talks: How to listen with your 'third ear' | McKinseyarticle · 2026-04-14
  5. How Deep Listening Is A Radical Act - Forbesarticle · 2026-04-14
  6. Harness the Power of Deep Listening to Transform Your Relationshipsarticle · 2026-04-14
  7. Deep Listening with Emily Kasriel - YouTubearticle · 2026-04-14
  8. This journalist wants you to listen more deeply - Reuters Institutearticle · 2026-04-14
  9. Speaking & Hosting | Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  10. emily kasriel | TED Blogarticle · 2026-04-14
  11. Enneagram in Real Life: The Transformative Art of Deep Listening with Emily Kasrielpodcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  12. This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil: How To Listen with Emily Kasriel | 321podcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  13. Calmly Coping: Transform Your Relationships Through Deep Listening with Emily Kasrielpodcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  14. FUTUREPROOF.: Why Tech is Making us Worse Listeners—and How to Fix It (ft. author Emily Kasriel)podcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  15. HarperCollins Publishers: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes, By Emily Kasriel, Read by Emily Kasrielpodcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  16. Politics and Prose Presents: Emily Kasriel — Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends, and Foes - with Christopher Turpinpodcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  17. Moments with Marianne: Deep Listening with Emily Kasrielpodcast_episode · 2026-04-14
  18. The power of deep listening: insights from Emily Kasriel's new book ...article · 2026-04-14
  19. Crossing Divides - BBC Blogsarticle · 2026-04-14
  20. communication styles — Blog — Nine Types Co.article · 2026-04-14
  21. An Invitation to Listen - The Hopeful Neighborhood Projectarticle · 2026-04-14
  22. Great Minds Think Alike: Making the morning commute more humanearticle · 2026-04-14
  23. BBC Blogs - About the BBC - Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  24. Deep Listening : to understand a different perspective - LSE Blogsarticle · 2026-04-14
  25. BBC Blogs - Academy - Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  26. Transform Relationships with Deep Listening with Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  27. The Transformative Art of Deep Listening with Emily Kasrielarticle · 2026-04-14
  28. Eight simple steps to transform the way you listen - Big Issuenews_article · 2026-04-14
  29. How Deep Listening can transform your journalism: Practical guidance for interviews and reporting - International Journalists' Networknews_article · 2026-04-14
  30. From Barbara Demick to Emily Kasriel: new books reviewed in short - New Statesmannews_article · 2026-04-14
  31. This journalist wants you to listen more deeply - reutersinstitute.politics.ox.ac.uknews_article · 2026-04-14
  32. How to become the ultimate leader – without uttering a word - MS NOWnews_article · 2026-04-14
  33. Book review: Deep Listening: Transform your relationships with family, friends and foes by Emily Kasriel - The Church Timesnews_article · 2026-04-14
  34. Why Is Listening to Each Other So Hard? - The Sunday Papernews_article · 2026-04-14
  35. How Deep Listening Is A Radical Act - Forbesnews_article · 2026-04-14
  36. 5 Communication Strategies That Transform Relationships - Next Big Idea Clubnews_article · 2026-04-14
  37. They hear, but do they care? What AI can teach us about listening better - BBCnews_article · 2026-04-14